DIY Chemotherapy Comfort Basket
Sadly, for the second time in two years, another loved one will be heading in for their first dose of chemotherapy. And due to life’s circumstances with the pandemic and a young infant, being hands-on supportive is impossible. However, my heart yearns to support and show my love, so I am putting together a “Got Your Back – Basket.”
When hearing a loved one is heading into cancer treatments, I often find myself sad, angry, and mildly helpless. I want to lend a helping hand, lighten their load, share their burden and simply be there with them. At this time, it is not reasonably possible to physically hold their hand, so I want to lend one by offering support and care items for this challenging journey they are embarking on.
As a child, I spent lots of time with my grandparents before, during, and after their cancer treatments. Over the years, I learned a lot from being by their sides during the hard and occasionally “easier” days. So, now, as an adult and with the input of other cancer warriors, I have come to have a go-to list of items to aid those undergoing chemotherapy.
Here are a few suggestions for items to send your love, support, and kindness.
Lap Blanket – the IV drip is at room temperature and can often make the patient feel cold; having a warm and personal blanket helps warm up the body and soul.
Small Stuffed Animal – a snuggly item for holding, squeezing, a visual reminder of their support person/team.
Hard Candy / Gum – Strong, robust flavors as a side effect of chemo can be a metallic taste in the mouth. Think twice about favorite flavors as my grandma hated her favorite candy once “chemo ruined it.”
Tea – Chamomile and Ginger have been known to help with upset bellies, so having some on hand for the few days after chemo may be a small blessing for the queasiness.
Puzzle Books, Coloring Books – busy brain busters and chill coloring pages are great time eaters for those long sitting periods.
Twistable Crayons, Gel Pens, Crayon Highlighters, Erasable Pens – writing and coloring utensils that do not require sharpening are a must! Think about a blank journal, too, for note-taking, thought sharing, or an occasional hangman game.
Sensitive Skin Lotion – Chemo can be very hard on the skin, so protecting the most sensitive areas is a must.
Quality chapstick – petroleum-free chapstick is a luxury you’ve never known until trying it.
Satin Scarves – hair loss is common, but even more so is a sensitive scalp; having a scarf to wear to bed, under a hat, or just to wrap the head during normal activities can add some comfort.
Hot and Cold Pad – a microwave and freezer safe pad is excellent for sore muscles and headache relief.
Epsom Salt Soak – light pampering like a foot soak can be very refreshing; just be gentle on scents as noses can become very sensitive.
Water Bottle – Hydration is critical, but even more so now. An easy-open, refillable, and fun water bottle is terrific to have on hand.
Sunglasses – Tired and sensitive eyes will rejoice under sunglasses for the rides to and from the doctors or those little trips outside for fresh air.
Long Phone Charger Cord / External Rechargeable Battery – Long days out, staying in contact with loved ones, figuring out the next word on Wordle, all eating up valuable battery life; help them be prepared.
The bag to hold it all – A lightweight bag with plenty of pockets that can be carried over the shoulder or hung on the wheelchair handles would be great to keep all these items and more!
I hope you found these suggestions helpful and that they allow you to share your support and love with your cancer warrior!
Wishing you love and health,
Respectfully yours,
Heather
